The Fixer Upper

Dear readers, many of us become lonely clowns trying to cheer everyone up, nonetheless feeling like empty shells with a smile stamped on our faces.

It’s a hard truth to face.

Probably the hardest thing to take in is people telling you how good you look when you’re not feeling well at all.

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Recently my meds were changed and my body is yelling at full throttle that something is wrong.  For more than ten years I’ve taken my medicines on a military schedule and now it’s going to be released little by little throughout different dosages and hours.

Tremors, feeling nauseous,  and being able to hold a meal have been a challenge to take in. But, I’m giving it my best.

Just wondering sometimes why does it have to be trying to cheer up anyone other than myself.  Surviving a difficult childhood left me with many scars, maybe the one that I resent the most is that I like to please those who surround me more than I need to. Early on I learned that pleasing my parents would keep me out of trouble, so I became a fixer upper. I’m not sure that’s even a term, but wanting to fix things for others is.

I need just to take a deep breath and give myself a break. It’s fine if I’m not feeling well, and I have all the right in this Universe to say it. I just have to make myself do it.

In the meanwhile I have my blog to turn to each time I need a shout out.  The best thing probably is that no one in my family takes time to read it so I can write anything I want without feeling guilty about it.

Trying to reach a point in your life where wellness is for real is hard to achieve and I’m not sure  we can get there.  Nonetheless,  we need something to look forward to while coping with this draining disease.

So, thanks for stopping by and let us aspire to keep moving forward however hard it can become to bare.  See you around.

Maleta and Go

Dear readers, thanks for stopping by and reading my blog.

I was thinking about something to share with you and I came up with my recent appointment with my neuro.   Navigating through the rapids of our neuro’s isn’t easy.  Just a couple of days ago I visited my doctor ‘s office for a check up, and since I’m not doing well I figured,  hmmm “He’s sending me to the hospital to get some Gamma and get me back on track.”, like usual.

Well, it didn’t happen.

I had all my stuff packed and ready for my seven day stay at the “Resort and Spa” a/k/a Bellavista Hospital , as we Puerto Ricans say I was all set for “Maleta and go”, which means I was up and ready to face whatever it is I needed to do.

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Nevertheless, he wasn’t going down that path, not at least  this time around.

He decided to  travel towards the Mestinon Extended Lane,  leaving my Prednisone dose a bit towards the high end.  Oh, and let me not forget that we talked about getting my thymus tissue removed.

The point I’m trying to make (and probably one you’ll share with me) is that getting on and off this roller coaster called Myasthenia is a hell of a thing.  There are so many twists and turns that it’s almost impossible  to land in one piece without experiencing the scare of your life.

I don’t know how long I can stay away from my next Gamma, but as of right now I’m grateful I’m home and not admitted in isolation in a nearby clinic.

The dice are rolled each time we come across a crisis and there is not much we can do about it.  However, the important thing for me is being able to calmly (I usually do the opposite) explore all my choices because at the end of the day  those are the choices that count.

Ultimately,  we are the ones who decide if we are “maleta and go” ready or if we need a bit more time to adjust and move forward with whatever it is we need to do. Nobody can take that away from us.

And remember to always be kind to yourself and move forward even if we can only take baby steps and I’m not talking in figurative language.

Take care.